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Janmashtami Who Is Lord Krishna?

Janmashtami Who Is Lord Krishna?

Lord Krishna is  the eighth avatar of Vishnu and is one of the most widely known deities in Hinduism. Krishna is depicted in a variety of forms because there are so many stories surrounding him. The most common story describes Krishna as a divine lover who plays the flute. Krishna. Krishna is the central character in the epic Mahabharata, the epic story including many of topics such as war, love, brotherhood, and politics. It is essentially the story of two warring groups of cousin brothers, the Pandavas and the Kaurvas. Krishna was the charioteer to Arjun in the battlefield.  The famous poem, the Bhagavat Gita, is spoken by Krishna to Arjuna on the battlefield. 

The Tale Of Shitala Ma

The Tale Of Shitala Ma

One of the tales I never knew about growing up as a child is the story of Shitala Ma. So who is Shitala Ma? Shitala’s name means “the cooling one”. Shitala Mata is mentioned in many scriptures, especially in Skanda Purana as the goddess of smallpox. She is an incarnation of Goddess Parvati. She is both the cause of the disease and the cure. When Shitala Devi first arose from a sacrificial fire, Lord Brahma told her that humans would always worship her, as long as she carried the seeds of a particular lentil called urad daal. Along with her companion, Jvarasura, the demon of fever created from the sweat of god Shiva, she travelled to visit other gods.
Why Do Hindus Fast?

Why Do Hindus Fast?

However, fasting is not only a part of worship but a great instrument for self-discipline too. It is a training of the mind and the body to endure and harden up against all hardships, to persevere under difficulties and not give up. According to Hindu philosophy, food means gratification of the senses and to starve the senses is to elevate them to contemplation. Luqman the wise once said, "When the stomach is full, the intellect begins to sleep. Wisdom becomes mute and the parts of the body restrain from acts of righteousness."
Happy Onam

Happy Onam

According to Vaishnava scriptures, King Bali defeated the Gods and began ruling over all three worlds. King Bali was a demon king who belonged to the Asura tribe. The Gods got insecure of King Bali’s popularity and asked Lord Vishnu to step in and help contain Bali. It is said that the great king was sent to the underworld by Vamana (5th Avatar of Lord Vishnu), but was given an allowance to visit his people once a year, hence Onam. The festival celebrates the return from the underworld of King Bali, who was considered a great ruler. Legend has it that when Bali ruled, there was no discrimination based on caste, and there was no corruption or crime.
What Are The Four Yugas?

What Are The Four Yugas?

The four Yugas also known as four ages. According to Hindu scriptures and mythology, the current universe is destined to pass through four great periods, each of which is a complete cycle of cosmic creation and destruction. Hindu mythology deals with numbers large enough to be nearly impossible to imagine. Each yuga is progressively shorter than the preceding one, corresponding to a decline in the moral and physical state of humanity, and because the process of creation is cyclical and never-ending, it "begins to end and ends to begin."
The Tale Of Nori Nem

The Tale Of Nori Nem

The holy Hindu festival of ‘Nori Nem’ (*some people have variations of the name and spelling), is celebrated in Gujarat, India.  The fast is observed by a group of women living closely in their neighbourhood. It is celebrated by women for the health and well-being of their children.   “Nori” (Norio), means ‘Mongoose’. “Nem” means ‘ninth’.  The day is celebrated on the ninth day of the holy month of Shravan.

On the day of Nori Nem, after bathing women dress in nice colourful clothes, to commence the ‘Nori Nem’ Pooja.  To celebrate the festival they cook a simple meal.  They cook five or seven sprouted beans (the beans have been pre-soaked and sprouted a couple of days before), this is known as “vadhu” in Gujarati.  This is served with a millet chapati known as “rotlo”, and milk.

Why Do Hindus Shave A Babies Hair?

Why Do Hindus Shave A Babies Hair?

I have two boys… Syon is now 9 Years and Dhiyan is 4 years old.  My mother is law had told me not to cut Syon’s hair, as after 18 months we will sh...
Shravan Mass Begins

Shravan Mass Begins

Shravan occurs on the fifth month of the Hindu calendar and is considered the most auspicious, and fruitful month to worship Lord Shiva. It is said that worshipping Shiva during this month is considered 108 times more powerful than regular prayer. Each day of Shravan represents something different and each day is considered very holy. I do Shiva pooja every Wednesday and Sunday with my boys, there always a fight who can put the most milk on the Shivling which is practically drowned in milk. I know Shiva looks down upon their innocence with love.
Why Do We Walk Around The Fire During a Hindu Wedding?

Why Do We Walk Around The Fire During a Hindu Wedding?

I remember planning my wedding, and going through with the priest the ceremony so I could translate the meaning of the rituals into English, so friends and family could understand the rich symbolism of our wedding.  We had our  wedding 18 years ago at a suite in Manchester Airport.  During the planning we told them we have a ceremonial fire.  The manager looked at me as if I was bonkers!! He said can you walk around a T-light??? My hear jumped was he crazy!!! Ever since being a little girl walking around the firs was what I dreamed of when marrying my prince! The manager proceeded to tell me it’s an airport… we have quite strict fire regulations!!!...On the big day we had two fire engines outside lol!! To get past the health and safety when they disabled the alarm so I could have my dream wedding!!!
Why Do We Eat With Our Hands?

Why Do We Eat With Our Hands?

So recently we were having our dinner, and my youngest Dhiyan aged 4 said to me…”Mummy why is it when we have Indian food we eat with our hands and when we eat other types of food we use spoons, knives and forks!!”. Good question when I am telling him to use a fork to eat his spaghetti, yet when having roti and rice and curry at home he happily eats with his hands!.

So off course I had to explore this questions The Jai Jais way…. Why do we eat with our hands?

Why do we avoid touching books with our feet?

Why do we avoid touching books with our feet?

As a child and even with both of my children we were always told never touch a book with our feet.  If by accident we stepped on a book we would always apologise.  Recently my youngest stepped on a book whilst playing and my eldest son Syon said, “Dhiyan say sorry you just stood a book.. say sorry to Saraswati books give you knowledge”.  I had not even told him that he must have got it from the Jai Jais lol!! This is what my belief and teachings actually has been, but I wanted to know more and find out The Jai Jais Way.
Who are Apsaras?

Who are Apsaras?

Have you heard if an Apsara? Again something that I never knew until I started the Jai Jais journey.  There are so many heavenly beings in Hinduism that I was not told about as a child. So I thought I would find out about Apsaras The Jai Jais way! The word "Apsara" originates from the Sanskrit "Apsaras". It could loosely be defined as "the one going in the waters or between the waters of the clouds".